Birthday, Getaways, and Bentley

I had my 22nd birthday last week! It was an alright birthday. Haha can't complain too much! Even though I'm only 22, I seriously feel so old. Trevor and I didn't really do much on my birthday, it's hard because he works the night shift. So before he left work on my birthday, he said that we'll be celebrating my birthday all week! 

Which leads us to our little getaway! We went to Spokane, did some shopping and stayed in the nicest hotel either of us have ever stayed in. 4 star hotel! It was so much fun and we definitely needed it. We ordered room service and just relaxed all night long. It was so nice, especially since our baby boy will be here soon! Trevor sure spoiled me, even if it was a late birthday present. I sure love him and am grateful for all he does for us! 

That's me at 35 and 36 weeks! Time is flying by so fast, it's crazy. We had our weekly appointment today and my doctor checked my cervix, more like she was stripping my membrane! Gosh, it hurt so bad. Anyways, our baby boy will be here a lot sooner than we thought! I'm dilated at a 2. It sucks our hospital is 2 hours away! That's what we get for living in the butt crack of narnia! We're hoping he'll stay in there for a little bit longer. Either way, we're getting quite excited for him to get here. 

***Also, I promise next blog post will be of our house and pictures! 

#PornKillsLove

I'm not one to get into a debate. I hate arguing. Everyone has their own opinions. But if you're trying to convince me of something that isn't true, than I will argue back. 

On Facebook, one of my friends shared an article going around. A billboard ad in Times Square went up and it's campaign is designed to normalize porn. I honestly think it's disgusting and it should be taken down. After she shared it, one of her friends (who I was getting very angry with) started debating that Porn is normal/good and EVERYONE watches it, including Mormons.

After he said that, I was already past angry, I was furious. First off, not EVERYONE watches porn. Maybe in his life/world that he comes from, but he's definitely wrong there. Second, yes there are some LDS people who have lost their way and somehow get into porn, but they find their way back to Christ. They know it's wrong and they work on getting better. Porn is a very serious thing and it kills relationships.

This debate about porn went on for a good thirty minutes. This guy made a comment and it went a long the lines of this, "So if you catch your husband watching porn, what are you going to do? Freak out at him? It's normal, he's a guy. Everyone watches porn." After that comment was made, you best believe that I went off on him. My husband Trevor HAS NEVER EVER WATCHED PORN BEFORE. I'll set that straight right now. He then decided to comment, "Are you sure? After all, he is a guy." Excuse me!!! Oh, I am way beyond furious. I am 100% sure that my husband has never watched porn. So what if he's a guy, that doesn't mean a darn thing. 

Porn doesn't just affect guys, it affects girls too. People may think it's normal/good from the way they were raised, but I was raised differently. Porn is a dangerous thing and kills relationships. If you are addicted to porn and want a way out, there's people out there who can help you. Get that help. I don't know from experience, but I've seen people go through it. You're not alone.

Just remember #PornKillsLove. Spread the word. Fight the new drug. 

Latest Updates & October

These past couple of weeks have been quite busy! Couple things have changed and more things will be changing real soon.

Trevor just had his 22nd birthday this past weekend! He's definitely feelin 22. First thing he did when he woke up was blast Taylor Swift's 22 song. Haha it was great. He had to work at night, but we just relaxed until he went to work and than the next day was an all Trevor day. We went shopping for things he wanted for his birthday (which he only got a shirt for work) and went out to eat and his little brother Mason tagged along. 

We were talking about how last year for his birthday was completely different from this year! Last year we were living in Provo, only been married a couple weeks, he had to work a morning and night shift at his job and his mom sent us some money so we could go to Olive Garden. My how things have changed just this past year. It's crazy! 

Trevor got switched to night shift up at the dam, which he likes because that means he can sleep in and do whatever he wants until he has to leave to work. He's such a hardworking husband and will do anything for our little family. He said he had a good birthday, which hopefully he really did. 22 never looked so good! 

Baby bump! I take a weekly bump picture  every week on Thursday, because that's when I start a new week of pregnancy. Those pictures are me at 30, 31, and 32 weeks pregnant. My time sure has flown by! I seriously can't believe my baby boy will be here NEXT MONTH. Ah!!!!! I can't wait. It'll be a new adventure, but I'm quite excited for it!

Also, kidney stones suck! Two weekends ago I was in the hospital AGAIN. I've only had kidney stones since being pregnant and it was my 4th time having them. We ended up having to stay the night and I passed the stones. It's so nice knowing that my baby boy is doing good and is still growing and is healthy as can be. Next time I go to the hospital it better to be deliver my baby!

We also finally have our doctor situation figured out up here, it took a long time and it was mostly my fault. My new doctors clinic and doctor are so amazing and we love the hospital we'll be delivering at. 

OCTOBER IS HERE!!!!! October is my absolute most favorite month out of the whole year. Ok, I really like December too, but October is my favorite. Why you ask. Well, it's my birthday month! Shoot whoot! I'll be feelin 22 soon. Also, it's fall! My favorite season ever, plus colder weather. Which means, leggings, boots, jackets/hoodies, scarves and all the fun cute fall clothing you can think of. It's also the beginning of the holiday season! And last but not least, only another month until my baby boy is here! 

Oh by the way...........................

WE FINALLY FOUND A HOUSE TO LIVE IN!!!!!! Yay!!!! No more RV trailer park for us. My mother in law was so kind to let us borrow her trailer until we found a place and we finally found a cute little 3 bedroom, 2 bathroom house. We are so excited! 

Next blog post will be about our first real home with lots of pictures so stay tuned!